I come into the kitchen and there on the radio a hit. A kind of love song to be the most sung by a He addressed a you. The chorus cara membentuk perut six pack line: "You make me a better cara membentuk perut six pack man."
Creeps me. And not so much because here the old gender arrangement is celebrated, which women in a heterosexual relationship have the task of ensuring the quality of the man. It is normal that the mainstream reaffirms existing gender arrangements, which is sort of his job.
The really creepy to this song line is that many women probably hit like this. Because many people like to see in this role: to make the man a better man. That's part of the patriarchal romantic love story, and it is celebrated by women as well as men (not all of course).
Later I read an article about the brutal rule of the "Islamic State", which says that there are women there, take over the task of disciplining other women. That's hard to believe, because even misogynist friendly than the IS can patriarchy does not look like it.
But it's the sad truth: Patriarchy is never easy, the rule of men over women. But wherever it exists, it can count on the support of women. Many women accept the role assigned to them an existence of second order. An existence cara membentuk perut six pack that is derived from man. You agree to the tasks assigned to them, even more, they make it their own. And they are the ones responsible for such order against other women, often ruthless.
Women are not inherently feminists, they must be set out in a conscious act of decision to no longer cara membentuk perut six pack accept the old symbolic cara membentuk perut six pack order of predominance of the male. Whether it is more likely that a woman this decision is as a man? Perhaps because of the distress cara membentuk perut six pack is higher because it has more to gain. Maybe also because the price is not higher, cara membentuk perut six pack they paid. A woman has often lose even more.
That it is not about a fight of women against men in feminism, it is often said, but this statement is ambiguous. cara membentuk perut six pack On the one hand, it is of course true in a banal way. Nevertheless, I have this slight discomfort, because this "It's not against men" can be easily understood as if we should keep our radicalism in check so as not to push the men in front of the head to include them, they "pick up".
But that's not the point. Feminism cara membentuk perut six pack is a much simpler reason not a struggle of women against men: because many women do not fight such a battle, cara membentuk perut six pack but to come to terms with the existing or even find it good. Or because they are simply not yet come up with the idea that they could make it out of the question. Because they have been yes just like the men raised and socialized in the conventional symbolic cara membentuk perut six pack order, might indeed feel a vague discomfort, but have not yet found a political expression of this.
Feminism is the refusal cara membentuk perut six pack to recognize a social and cultural order that sees women as derived from man beings. Execute improve the world by improving the men who assert themselves in the world by imitating men, or the laws of men to other women: as beings who do not pursue their own goals, but as it were to play only on the rebound ,
A feminist does not recognize you in the content of their political demands and views, but by whether it has ceased to be their own lives (and the lives of other women) to be understood as a second order. As to whether they want to act directly cara membentuk perut six pack in the world, or whether they would like to improve men, in the hope that the then fix it. By whether it establishes its own laws and lives according to them, or whether they executed the laws of men, especially to other women.
Yes, men can also be feminist. Such men can be recognized that they preferably move in the company of feminists. Because they value women as a sovereign counterparts and not as a reflection of their own.
I find it wonderful that feminists men do not want to improve. cara membentuk perut six pack So why do I have the feeling that some try anyway? Be it through the regulation of pornography or by criticism of video games? Both media are mostly consumed by men.
We should cara membentuk perut six pack be glad that there are male and female aspects and see the differences are not as Verhinderungs- but as a development potential to show the world that we are worthy people to be a part of this.
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